Two Ruths Under One Roof
This has been my first move where my family has been around
to help. Before, I’ve been a gazillion
miles away. Now I’m only one and a half
from them. So they, along with my
mother-in-law and cousin, spent the day unpacking my kitchen. While I was doing something in the living
room, I heard my mom say to my cousin how much “days like today” make her miss
her mother. She wanted to share it with
my grandmother –to call her up and tell her all about it.
As my cousin unpacked a cookie jar, she laughed and
remembered aloud how my grandmother kept her cooking utensils in that jar. It brought a wave of placement to my
kitchen. My grandmother’s kitchen was
warm – well, usually hot – from something boiling, steaming, roasting, frying
or cooking on her stove. She taught me
how to make gravy – the long, slow, deeply rich kind – on that stove. And to the left of it was my cookie jar. It now has a retired place above my
cabinet. But her other dishes fill
another cabinet. Those ones are for use.
My grandmother’s name was Allie Ruth. Everybody called her Ruth.
And then there’s another Ruth around here. The one who lived here before. The one who took a plain house and made it
adorably beautiful. The one who stayed
up late nights working on projects to make the house cozy as well as
sophisticated. She made us a lovely
nest. And even left us fun and thoughtful
surprises when we moved in. And then
came back to introduce us to our neighbors. What a gift!
We stood outside for a long while, meeting everyone… and in a
neighborhood where everyone acts like neighbors, we were welcomed with open
arms.
I don’t know. Somehow
it feels right. My grandmother would
have liked her. Both women who knew how
to work hard and make ordinary things wonderful… Women who were not afraid of power tools and
loving people with a fierceness. Prayer warriors
who cooked and cleaned and mended what was broken.
These Ruths leave a legacy for me. Physical reminders to use my home
wisely. Not to keep it just as a refuge
for ourselves, but as a refuge for other people… to use it as ground zero of loving
and serving our neighborhood. Of working
diligently to provide an atmosphere where people feel like they can breathe
deeply. And praying that the Spirit
helps everyone who crosses our threshold to stretch out their souls.
So, stop by sometime.
I’ll cook something yummy and we’ll have a long chat. And hopefully, I’ll live up to all that I’ve
inherited.
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