Honestly Speaking
Part having cognitive challenges consists of not being able to filter how what you think, do, or say will be perceived by other people. So, my students have a deep ability to be really honest.
Yesterday in Chapel, one of my guys was grumpy because there
had been a change in plans that left him out.
They can’t go on Sunday. They can’t go on Sunday. They go on Monday. So thinking I could distract his train of
thought, I asked, “Why do we come to church?”
They can’t go on Sunday. They can’t go on Sunday. They go on Monday. But, I was still determined: “Tell me something you’re thankful for?” Well,
April. I’m just not in the mood to be
thankful.
Our memory verse for the last several weeks has been about
loving each other deeply. We’ve talked
about how much forgiveness has to do with love:
Love covers over a
multitude of sins. One of my
ladies has been really hurt by someone who should have protected her. So, loving and forgiveness are a daily battle
in her mind. After discussing the verse
she said, I don’t agree with that. “You don’t agree with what?” We
shouldn’t have to forgive people who hurt us.
I don’t mean to hurt your feelings, April – but that’s just my opinion. “Well, are you arguing with what this verse
says?” Yes. But it’s just my opinion. “Well, this verse is God’s opinion. And this is Bible Study, so we’re gonna go
with God’s opinion.” Oh… Fine. Ok. But
I don’t like it.
I would have put on a fake smile and made my thankfulness list. I would have taken my rock to the alter even with great bitterness. I would have acted like loving the people who hurt us is easy. It’s a good, good thing for me to be with these adults who live with a child-like faith. Because, honestly speaking, even those of us without cognitive challenges have the same heart-sin challenges. We just hide ours better.
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