Get Her Laughing
I don't know if
you've met her or not, my sister, but I think you might like her.
She loves holding babies and cuddling with dogs. She loves talking,
putting puzzles together, and watching TV. She has a memory like you wouldn't believe. She prays for the details
of people's lives, some of whom she has never met. She is funny. She
is sensitive. She is brave.
And if you get her
laughing, there will be tears. And you'll laugh, too. It's a great
way to spend the afternoon, laughing with my sister.
These are the things
you might not know when you see her bowling with her friends from the
center. These are the things you might not think about when you
watch her walk in the parking lot. These are the things that you
might not tell your kids when you're sitting at the table next to us
at Chili's.
But these are the
things that are true.
So, I ask of you to
be kind to her in the middle of the grocery isle. When she tells
you, “Have a nice day,” answer her back. Smile at her. Slow
down and listen to her story. Let her ooh-and-awe over your baby.
Call her when you think about her. Take her out for lunch.
Love her well. After all, isn't it all of us who have special needs? Especially the need to be loved. And that is what she does best.
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